Birth date: Jan 26, 1968 Death date: Jun 1, 2012
Suddenly on June 1, 2012, Stuart “JR” E. Fitzgerald, Jr. Beloved Son of Charlotte A. Ochs (nee Crabb) and her Husband James and Stuart E. , Sr. Loving Brother of Charles E. Fitzgerald, Bonnie A. Miller and Charlotte M. Quinlin. Al Read Obituary
Hey Kim this is JR's brother thank you for all your kind words about my brother he was definitely one of a kind and he will be missed more than he could ever imagine. If you would like to talk feel free to give me a call 443-996-7408 I'm up at 8am & try to be down by 10pm. JR I love you and miss you I think about you everyday I love you bro.
I miss your huge goofy grin, Ju Ju Bear.
I miss you so very much, Junior. Rest in peace, baby. Love you infinity!
Sorry I'm late, baby! I just found out last evening. I miss you so very much, Junior. It hurts so bad, baby, to know that I wont again, in this lifetime, see you raise your eyebrows at me, in that playful way I loved so very much. It hurts so much more than words can say Junior, and you know how good I am with words. I'm so angry at the world right now, baby. But, you know me, and you know, with a Jack & Coke in one hand, and my pen in another, I'm going to tell the world all about you. I'll write, and they'll read our tale. They'll read all about the side of you that so very few people were privy to. I'll tell the world about the bright light that you truly are. I'll tell them how you fought so hard, a war that was too long, and too gory. I'll tell the world how you died the hero that you truly were. I'll tell them the side of you they never even knew existed. I'll tell them how you saved my life, protected me, sheltered me from the evils of your horrid war, the evils of your life.
I'll tell your family of the countless tears you spent on my shoulder, hating yourself for the battle scars you left on thier lives. I'll tell your brother, how much you love and respected him, even though you didn't want to "Inflate his already big head". I'll tell them how much you loved them all, even though you didn't believe you were deserving of their love. I'll tell them how you walked away from me, so many darn times, because you truly believed you were protecting me. By the way, I'm so pissed at you for that, you know! I'll tell your family all the wonderful things you wished you could give them to make up for the ghosts you left in their pasts.
And most importantly, Junior, I'll tell them how you saved a life; my life. How you gave me the powerful gift of hope that someone battling a different kind of war than you, needed to survive. I'll tell them how you spent night after night with me in the hospital, never leaving my side, arguing with the doctors, harping on the nurses, and lecturing me about quiting smoking cigarettes--you hipocrite! I'll tell them how you were so very devious mastermind, and sneaky, and cunning, "stopping in" to stay and care for me. "All good things" you needed to survive the kind of war you battled. I'll tell of the tale we spun together Junior, and how you spent your life keeping me safe from the evils you were plagued with. How you made me laugh, and smile, and fight for my life everytime I wanted to give up. How you wouldn't let me quit school, or give up on my writing. You're silly, you know, for wasting so much of your energy and time on me. You should have spent that on yourself! You'll always be my devious mastermind! You would have made a great villian, baby, had you tried harder to pretend not to care about the ones you loved. But of all Junior, you're truest and greatest role was that of my Savior. My Knight in Shinning armor. You'll always be my golden hope, my love, and my light. My soul mate! Rest in Peace, Junior. You've earned it.
I'm sorry I'm so late, Junior. I didn't find out until last evening, baby. And, well, you know I've got to speak up for you.
With a Jack & Coke in hand, and a pen in mind, I'll write your memories, my love. I'll tell the world of the side of you that very few were privy to. I'll write, and they'll read, and the ones who loved you most will know, by the light that took you home. I'll dedicate my everything to you, just as my love dictates such, and when, when I'm finished showing the world, I'll come home with you, to once again, stand by your side. For now, rest at ease, my wonded Angel, and let peace flood your tattered heart. FInally we can bandage our battle scars because there's No more fighting for you, baby. Your war, that ungodly tradgedy life had subjected you to, has come and gone, way too many times, and now, finally, it's done and through. I'll see soon my love, for only your heart will fit with mine, and for another heart in this world, I wouldn't drop a meger dime. Too many hearts were callous, cold, and cutting, towards you, a person who was only human, a person who was judged through and through. But rest at ease now, my sweet love, for only the warmest of hearts will wish for you, a magical peace that's pure lure, and on my hearts promise, entirely at your door. That of your family, who loved you for sure, but who's own hearts were beaten by the lurking gore of your war. That of your friends, the true friends, I mean, who fed you, and clothed you, and granted you a lien. That of your love, the one that's golden and true. Those are the hearts that will call upon you, with tears deep, or shallow, when in a moments memory, they see your roughly handsome face. I love you always, Junior, and no one on this earth can ever take your place.
Jr. What a tall, and strong young man you were. I pray that you are at rest now. You wondered and struggled for so long. God had a plan for you. He took you to heaven to be a angel, so you could protect us from above. You have a lot of family up their to look over. Thank you for the oppertunity to love you when you let me. So happy to know you are home, in heaven. You are at peace. Take care of one another up their. I will always keep you close in my heart and in my prayers. Love, Aunt Joyce
Jr, I still can’t believe you are gone. I’m so thankful that I was able to spend time with you the past few months. We all love you and miss you so much. I know that you are at peace now, free from life’s struggles and burdens. Love, your little sister.
SON, YOUR MOM AND I AM GLAD THAT YOU ARE HOME. NO MORE WORRYING WHERE YOU ARE OR WHAT YOU MAY BE DOING. KNOWING THAT YOU ARE NOT GOING HUNGRY. KNOWING THAT YOU ARE SOMEWHAT SAFE FROM ANY MORE HARM. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND BE PLACED ON THE RIGHT HAND SIDE OF GOD. WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH.
